this is Why your Real Life is boring.

do you always find yourself thinking that man my life is so boring ? do you think your life sucks?

do you think your life isn't interesting at all while others are having a blast with their life ?

then read this article ahead to find out how you're either wrong about your life or you really need to change your life for better. 👌

Identify your Perspective.

We all naturally form a perspective about everything that we see or either we know of. 

and we do the same with life. 

we form a perspective about our life and life of others. we normally base our perspective of someone else's life on the basis of what we see from the outside , generally by social media or their fake smiles and laughs.

amidst all this we fail to realise that on social media people show only the Lavish side of their life. no one shares their personal problems on social media and that is why we think that oh this person doesn't have any problem in their life , it's only me whose life is problematic and dull,I wish I had a better life. and this is when we start forming our perspective about our own life in a negative way. 

I want you to first sit alone and talk to yourself and identify the real perspective that your life deserves off you. 

Do you think your life is getting boring and it needs some change ? 

or 

do you think your life totally sucks?

Does your life Suck?

well if you have this perspective about your life then their must be many factors about why you think so. 

generally a person starts thinking like this when they are getting ignored by the outside world most of the time , they are being bullied , they are made to feel  embarrassed about themselves  continuously by their colleagues or friends in any unintentional way, when they are being suppressed by any enemy ,when they don't have much friends to talk to or spend time with or either face domestic abuse which is a big issue ofcourse. 

but

Mostly people think this about their life when they see others enjoying their life. social media as I mentioned , everybody using social media shows off only the lavish side of their life and this also is not continuous. 

there must be days when they also don't talk to anyone or post and share anything at all, this is because not everyday is a happy day for everyone and every person has a 98% life and 2% problems ratio in their life and the increment of life or problems totally depends on us as I have mentioned this theory earlier in my Gratitude article.

in this scenario , 

we have to take some simple steps to make our life better.

1. Embrace your life

the first hing that we have to do is , realise that the online life is totally fake and everybody seems happy there while in Real life everybody is facing some problems. realise that the life you are living deserves appreciation as many people have life worse than you. show your gratitude towards your life.

2. Identify your problems

Problems can never be gotten rid of if we don't identify them at the first place, we must identify what problems we have in our life and prioritise them on the basis of practical solvability.

after we have successfully identified our problems then try to solve the smallest problem first and gradually end up making the percentage of our problems small. 

but we must accept the fact that problem is attached to life , no life is problem free.

3. Grow in your life

Now as we are well known to our problems it is easy to decide that wether we can solve them or not. if some of your problems are solvable then do it , solve the problems. but if some of the problems are not solvable then don't waste your time thinking about those problems, accept the fate and start growing your life ahead.

thinking about something only makes you to get sucked on that point of your life so learn to live with the problems that you can not control.

is your life getting boring?

If you have this perspective about your life then this is not much of a problem.

feeling this way about your life is a result of your surroundings and your habits. feeling boring about your life is totally normal and it is super temporary. 

change of your surroundings plays the major role in this scenario as you get habitual of your present surrounding and become comfortable with that but when the surrounding changes then it affects your comfort zone or interest zone.

now , we can not control our surroundings but we can surely do our half of the effort to make our life less boring.

Change your life

Most of us or almost all of us have a schedule naturally made , for our life and we go through this almost everyday. this is normal to lose interest in your life when you repeat the same things daily and do the same tasks daily. to get free from this we must change our life , we must include our favourite habits to our schedule let it be gymming , dancing , singing or anything that you love to do because what you love is never going to be boring to you, and if it does get boring for you then you don't actually love it.

if you are tired of your workplace then change your workplace, tired of your city then move to a new city , tired of your profession then change your profession , this life is too short and if we think practically then this is the only conscious life we are going live, so we shouldn't be keeping ourself tied to any kind of rope.

Can't change your life ?

 if you can't possibly change your life then you must include some other things in your life that makes it interesting for you.

Learn new skills, Learning new skills is interesting and really helpful for you as more the skills more the options of generating income in your life.

Learn instruments all by yourself , music is divine , and no one can ever get bored of music. when you learn something all by yourself then you start getting interest in doing it.

Have vacations and go out , going out and hanging out with your friends is a kind of therapy to relish your life and get happiness for sometime.

there are numerous activities that you can perform all you have to do is be optimistic and think.

IN THE END, 😉

No life is ever problem less. everyone has problems in their life and we must learn to tackle the problems. always be positive about your life because every circumstance is temporary and positivity attracts happiness. 

life is too short for complaining and fighting so spread positivity as much as possible and respect everyone as we don't know what problem they are facing in their life.

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